दुनिया बहोत बदल गई है

पहले व्यक्तित्व देख संबंध रखते थे
अब संपत्ति को देखी जाती है
दुनिया बदल गई है, वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

लंबे पत्र की जगह एसएमएस,
फेसबुक और वॉट्सएप में
दुनिया सीमट गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

ताउ, चाचा, मामा, फुफा, मौसा से
अब सिर्फ भाई बहन तक रिश्ते
फेमिली अब छोटी हो गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

धोती, साडी, सलवार से ड्रेस अब
केप्री, स्कर्ट और बर्मुडे में
सीमित हो गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

पहले मुसाफरी को दिनमहिने लगते
अब मिनटो घंटो की बात है लेकिन
मन की दूरी बढ गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

नमस्ते से हाय-हेल्लो, पाई लागु से हेन्ड शॅक
हग- फ्लाइंग किस आम बात सी हो गई है
भाई दुनिया बदल गई है

बच्चे अब जलदी बडे होने लगे
सब कुछ समजने-करने लगे
इनकी मासूमियत खो गई है
क्यों दुनिया बदल गई है

अच्छी, सच्ची बात नहीं करना
युवा को बहकाना भटकाना
कलम-कलाकारो की मजबूरी हो गई है
कैसी दुनिया बदल गई है

संस्कार बाबुजी के ट्विटर पे
जोक बन गये है
दादा दादी की सिख मामूली हो गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

जलदी है सब को घर जाने की
भागमभाग हो रही है
ट्राफिक जाम, हॉर्न के शोरगुल में
जिंदगी खतम हो रही है
भैया दुनिया बदल गई है

गेट वॅल सून, RIP और :-) (स्माइली) से काम चलता है
संवेदनायें सिकुड गई है
वाकई दुनिया बदल गई है

रात को खाओ पीओ, दिन को आराम करो
हम को क्या, हमारा क्या
इस मंत्र से भीड दौड रही है
देखो दुनिया बदल गई है

मौत के वक्त भी शांति नहीं
मिलना जुलना, बिझनेस की बातें,
लाउड रिंगटोन बज रही है
दुनिया बदल गई है

दुनिया के रंगरूप से चिंतित
लोगों कि चिंता व्यर्थ
उलटा जगहंसाई हो रही है
दुनिया बदल गई है

How to show off you are busy person on social media or smart phone?

-Check up whats app messages as and when they come but don't reply or send any messages. Senders will understand you are very busy person.

- Read your text messages but don't reply or call back to convey that you have received messages.

-Tell every body that you got so much whats app messages, facebook tags, text messages, e-mails that you delete them at once without reading them.

- Read all your facebook friends posts but don't click on like any post. Even don't comment. Copy your favourite post and rewrite it as if it is your creation.

-Read every blog posts (like you are reading this one :-) ) which is your favourite (as you are reading now) but don't click on likr and don't comment on it. (I am sure you will follow this suggestion for this post)

-But yes, when you are with real people (meeting or with friends or relatives) read every whats app messages, text messages and then show off them ho w much busy you are!

- Put your status update every minute telling about your busy schedule!

- Write a post that you are so busy person that there is so much waiting for your appointment.

-Even if you are playing subway surfer, candy crush saga or teen patti, put status message that there is so much work for you and you are very tired! 

Mobile, email, facebook, orkut : Where is the etiquette?

(To read it in Gujarati, click : http://jaywantpandya.wordpress.com/2009/10/15/મોબાઇલ-ફેસબુક-હાઇ-પ-ઓર્કુ/)
Orkut, facebook, hi 5, mobile phones...there is no doubt in it that we are getting hi fi day by day by way of technology, but the big question is the aticate or manners in use of these things.

Now evey Tom, Dick and Harry has mobile phones because they have become so cheap. (Ofcourse, I am talking from price point of view!) But where is the true way of using it? The Bhartiya caller will ask first (in Gujarat, I have marked this thing particularly), ‘Who are you?’ Man, you have called. You should first tell your identity. Ok. Many a times, it happens that after asking ‘who are you?’ he will ask you to give phone some body else. (He will order it, not request). If you want some another person, why did you ask for my identity? Some people will ask after calling, ‘Where are you?’. Buddy, after getting call, I am not in heaven that is for sure. There may be no connection between the intention of calling and the location of receiving person. And many callers also do not bother whether the receiver is realy have time to talk.

Another interesting thing happens is that you have gone personally to meet some Mr. Joy. Now Mr. Joy gets a call on his mobile. Now you become less important for Mr. Joy, but the person who is calling from distance gets importance. What a tregedy! And it is not sure that the conversation will take short time.

Now take sms services. In language of Himesh Reshamiya, fabulous, mind blowing, fantastic that is what we can say about sms service. So fast, so quick, so speedy! But many sms writers forgets or do not bother to write his or her name at and of sms. They take it for granted. Ofcourse, it may happen that sms senders number is saved or even not saved.But even if it is saved, many a times name is not shown in sms or call. Lets assume that sms sender writes his name only. Will it be suffice? No. there can be many person having similar names. He or she should write his or her full name with some fact revealing identity. e.g. Vijay Malhotra, de. manager, SBI.

Now come to email. Many persons just forward emails without deleting the previous persons’ email address and other details. It can be some time dangerous or even some time mischief can be happen as receiver can get email ids of so many people in one mail and you can not say with full confidence that receiver is 100% good person.

In social networking sites like orkut, facebook and hi5, every Tom want to be friend of Dick. Just click on button- add friend and request is reached. Mahesh becomes friend of Ramesh and sees that Nilesh is friend of Ramesh, sends friendship request to Nilesh. Now not necessarily Nilesh is knowing Mahesh. Whenever I get this type of friendship request in orkut or facebook, I send message, ‘Do we know each other? Yes, then how?’ If the requesting person gives appropriate answer than and only I approves him or her. But one case happened with me gets me laughing and same time annoying also.

One person requested me to become friend. I asked same question written above. It replied back with asking me who I am! I told it that I was journalist. Without telling about itself It replied me, ‘Welcome!’