After being in relationship for 17 long years, Janta Dal (U) and
BJP parted ways. It is well known fact that both have choosen different paths
after BJP elevated Modi as head of campaign committee. In 2003, Nitish Kumar
had visited Kutch and predicted :
Modi will assume a significant role in national politics in
Future.
See, how Nitish's prediction is proven true!
But I have different point to share with you readers. My point is
that if you don't want to continue your relation, fine. Say good bye. But why fight?
Why do you make your one time friend or lover or spouse your arch rival?
Hindu and Muslim communities are considered very sensitive and
emotional. If they are friend they will not hesitate to sacrifice own life for
other. But when they become enemy, they want to kill each other. Yesterday
there was news that muslims of Kashmir helped Kashmiri pandits to perform puja.
It means that these muslims are different from those muslims who don’t want
pundits to stay in Kashmir.
There is one legend about Kashmir. There was a handsome Brahmin
guy. Princess saw him and attracted towards him and decided firmly to marry
him. Badshah agreed with princess but put one condition that guy had to convert
and adopt Islam. Guy asked Brahmins and suggested that if they will accept him
once he became ruler. Brahmins refused. Guy had to marry princess and converted
to Islam. After he became ruler, he went to pundits and asked him to accept him
in Hindu religion. But pundits refused proposal. It is said that after this
that young man became arch enemy of hindu religion.
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I want to say that don’t make your friend your arch enemy. Third
party is always ready to make you and your friend enemy. If you want to break
relation, break in a way that you both can become friends again. We have fine
examples of Aamir Khan and Reena. They divorced, but they have cordial
relations. Either Aamir or Reena hasn’t spoken against each other. Ditto Saif
Ali Khan and Amrita Singh.
There are so called lovers who become crazy and perverted after
rejection of their one sided love. They either make fake facebook profile of
their lover or throw acid on lover’s face. They even go to extent to kill their
lover. How one can think to throw acid or kill or defame that person who he/she
claim to love? Is this love?
If your love is true, real then think wellness of your lover. It
is not necessary that person whom you love will also love you. There is also
advice for young girl or young man. Please be careful that your gesture or your
friendship should be limited and one should not take it as your love, especially
when you have friendship with opposite sex person. But anyway, it doesn’t mean
that one sided love can go to extent of perverseness.
When relationship breaks, lyrics of old ‘Gumrah’ film song comes
in mind:
Chalo ek baar phir se ajnabi ban jaaye hum dono
Na main tumse koi ummeed rakhoon dilnavaazi ki (Don’t expect
anything from your lover/friend/business partner/spouse with whom your relation
is broken)
Na tum meri taraf dekho galat andaaz nazaron se
Na mere dil ki dhadkan ladkhadaaye meri baaton mein
Na zaahir ho tumhaari kashm-kash ka raaz nazaron se
Taarruf rog ho jaaye to usko bhoolnaa behtar
Taalluk bojh ban jaaye to usko todnaa achchha
Voh afsaana jise anjaam tak laana na ho mumkin
Use ek khoobsoorat mod dekar chhodna achchha
Chalo ek baar phir se...
When
you feel that relationship can’t be continued more, end on a good point.
Coming
back to political point, BJP and JD(U) should have broken relationship with
good sense. But they didn’t and yesterday (18th June, 2013) we saw
them fighting each other on day of Bihar Bandh.
BJP
must learn from Congress. There are so many parties formed from congress. NCP,
Janta Dal, Janta Dal (U), Trinamool Congress…etc..Congress has good relation
with NCP and they have been partners in power in center and Maharashtra.
But
BJP has difference case. When someone revolts BJP workers cannot tolerate it. In
Gujarat, they teared Atmaram Patel’s dhoti when Shankar Sinh revolted aginst
BJP. Same case is with Keshubhai Patel, Suresh Mehta and Kashiram Rana. At
national level there are examples of Balraj Madhok, Govindacharya.
One
may argue that Congress compromises with its rival for power, I will say that
BJP also wants power and this is power play only.
I
will again advice that be it politics, friendship, love, marriage or business,
try to make adjustments (and that should be from both side) but if you feel
after longtime that relationship can’t be maintained, break with but with a
good end. Please remember these words:
Voh afsaana jise anjaam tak laana na ho mumkin
Use ek khoobsoorat mod dekar chhodna achchha
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